Our Fertility Journey: Episode 8

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Our Fertility Doctor:
Andy Huang, M.D. - Reproductive Partners Medical Group, Inc.
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28 juin 2020




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The Life Of Karen
The Life Of Karen Il y a 50 minutes
You can book a 3D/4D ultrasound just for “fun” they will take their time with you. Very fun EDIT: right when i finished typing this she said she’s already made an appointment 😂
Nicole Davis
Nicole Davis Il y a 4 heures
I paid extra to get the 4d ultrasound with the teddy bear and all the bells and whistles and it was the best decision. You won’t regret it one bit!
Denise Perez
Denise Perez Il y a 4 heures
It's normal to shake your belly to get baby to move. They're trying to see and make sure everything is developing appropriately. When you make another appointment and baby doesn't cooperate they're going to do the same thing. The lip comment was probably because you were filming. Some places don't even allow that so definitely count yourself lucky that you have that footage even if you cringed.
Lupe Flores
Lupe Flores Il y a 4 heures
Lazyyyy??? 😂😂😂
Melody Santana
Melody Santana Il y a 8 heures
The differences between a tech and a doctor Tech: oh wow look at it, he has such a big upper lip Doctor: .... that's normal Moral of the Story never listen to a ultrasound technician.
Kimberly Arce
Kimberly Arce Il y a 12 heures
that slick bun = jlo vibes
Sammy J
Sammy J Il y a 14 heures
I cry EVERY SINGLE EPISODE 😭 (good tears). This is so beautiful and your baby is making an even more amazing, empathetic and passionate woman even before he is officially here. Being a mom looks so darn good you, and Steve is already in dad jokes mode. My heart! 💖
Aurora Harkins
Aurora Harkins Il y a 16 heures
I ball my eyes out each time I even see your little sneak peaks on Instagram, then the entire video. I absolutely adore you guys and I’m so excited for you baby doll ❤️
Nayely Cazares
Nayely Cazares Il y a 16 heures
OMG I felt the same way about the ultrasound tech... there was no enthusiasm in that appointment! I am happy you noticed that and scheduled another one!
Rocio Mercado
Rocio Mercado Il y a 17 heures
Harper looking so fluffy at the end 😍❤️
Nancy Perez
Nancy Perez Il y a 17 heures
Techs aren’t even supposed to say anything.
Jennifer Nicholas
Jennifer Nicholas Il y a 18 heures
Honestly Desi you and this baby are such a light to us as well in this crazy year. I’m so thankful that you are sharing with us 💗
Susan Urbina-Figueroa
Susan Urbina-Figueroa Il y a 22 heures
What was up with the lady??? It is a baby and you're frustrated that it won't stop moving? I swear some people pick the wrong career. I felt your vibe change I the room and funny that Steven asked how you were.
Maria Kalendareva
Maria Kalendareva Il y a 22 heures
😂 I love you guys!!!!! “Jk,jk,jk”
Babyvdimples Il y a jour
Hiii! ☺ My question is how did you get a recording on your phone while facetimeing??? I want to be able to do the same thing. 👍🏼🙂
Letta Fiame
Letta Fiame Il y a jour
Love you guys a blessing on your baby journey 🎊🎊🎊🎊
Lindsey Bussey
Lindsey Bussey Il y a jour
It’s a beautiful experience & to have it ruined is disgraceful!! My husband is deployed and should would not let me call until the very end of the ultrasound during my anatomy scan 😭 who knows what is in the water with these techs
Olivia E.
Olivia E. Il y a jour
lollll is that Katy on the shirt?
Bre Stuhlmuller
Bre Stuhlmuller Il y a jour
I had a very similar experience with my ultrasound appointment! Like acting mad that my baby girl “wasn’t cooperating” liiiiiiiiike give me a break! Sorry you had not the best experience too! Hoping your next one is amazing!
Mariana Morales Velazquez
Anyone else looking at katy’s face the whole time?? Lolol
Lee Hetet
Lee Hetet Il y a 2 jours
If only the tech actually knew your guys journey to get this far in your pregnancy then maybe she might have been a little more sensitive to the situation & plus with this pandemic going on & Steven not being allowed to be in the room to experience this moment right by your side, she could have been a little more compassionate to the situation. But good on you desi for wanting to go elsewhere to get your guys special moment. Wishing you all the best can’t wait for the next episode 😊
naomi macias
naomi macias Il y a 2 jours
You guys are my favorite ❤
Leslie Figueroa
Leslie Figueroa Il y a 2 jours
Okay I have watched this video many times but I still get upset when the tech/nurse/whatever she is , in the ultrasound after she had be throwing unnecessary comments all appt long decided to say “now with these masks I can’t see shit” um... excuse me... where did you even go to school?? Because they clearly skipped the part of Professionalism and Empathy with the patient. 😒so proud of Desi for staying strong and composed . I would have been sooo upset
Kara Sullivan-Orellana
Kara Sullivan-Orellana Il y a 3 jours
I totally relate to the rushed appointments. Mine always felt like that and I wouldn't even be asked if I had questions. Being my first child I was so upset because of course I wanted to know things and enjoy seeing the ultrasounds.
Stacy Dickinson
Stacy Dickinson Il y a 3 jours
the pumpkin patch is sooooo cute... baby Perkins doesn't even know... so blessed!
Classic Ashley
Classic Ashley Il y a 3 jours
Yes - get the 3D at a special place. Worth every penny!
Cheleene Wence
Cheleene Wence Il y a 4 jours
Omg Desi and Steven♥️♥️♥️♥️💓!! You all are sooo sweet!! I always wait to watch these videos with my 2 daughters. We have cried, laughed with all of you!! Sending soo much love from Chicago♥️💓♥️💓
chyna0914 Il y a 4 jours
Don’t focus so much on the expected “excitement” of an ultrasound. You won’t even remember those moments once little man gets here.
Mandy Trout
Mandy Trout Il y a 4 jours
Hey at least you fortunate enough to have those 3d ultrasounds... That's awesome. I didn't have anything like that 24 years ago and 13 years ago.
Pamela Gallo
Pamela Gallo Il y a 4 jours
Wow that tech was so unprofessional. From the comments about the baby’s looks to the cursing. Even at a nonprofessional setting I don’t make comments like that
Jonathan Schrier
Jonathan Schrier Il y a 4 jours
I got super irritated with that First Lady too. Who the heck says that!?! Ultrasounds make things look weird than they should, they aren’t true reflections! I can’t believe she took the excitement away of just seeing your baby by making such stupid comments.
rosalie amezcua
rosalie amezcua Il y a 4 jours
Omg you guys are so cute!!!! Didn't aprecciate the techs comments! Baby is so cute!!
Clarissa Il y a 4 jours
Omg! Before Steven even checked in on you I felt the tension in the room as if I was there! I was even getting defensive for you, Desi! I would have reacted the same way. I thought she was pretty cold but once the doctor said it’s totally normal I was like then what was up with the other lady? Anyway, such a beautiful baby boy! I love watching your journey 🥰
Stacey Parker
Stacey Parker Il y a 5 jours
Worst tech ever! Yiesh
jenna laviano
jenna laviano Il y a 5 jours
Omg I felt some type of way when she was commenting on his lips. Like no lady
Valentina Ramirez
Valentina Ramirez Il y a 5 jours
Mom advice: Desi you need baby onesies with a zipper!!! Trust me, onesies with buttons aren’t the biz 😂 zippers are life savers!
Nicole Zuniga
Nicole Zuniga Il y a 5 jours
Come see Khalil Tabsh!! He’s the best perinatologist and does his own scans!!
angelina roman
angelina roman Il y a 5 jours
So beautiful can’t wait to meet him ❤️❤️
Kristina Nieves
Kristina Nieves Il y a 5 jours
where are the books that you guys are using to learn spanish from?
jay g
jay g Il y a 5 jours
How many weeks is she here?
Rachel S
Rachel S Il y a 5 jours
I’m SO glad you chose to go to another appointment and get all the fluff from ppl you needed! I also had to switch my doctor after my very first appt. After very quickly telling us we had twins but we lost one, the doctor then proceeded to tell me I could only gain 20 lbs my whole pregnancy. I started at not huge but she sure made me feel obese. It was horrendous and I’m still scarred. I really hope your next apt goes better and you can leave that bad experience behind you. You deserve it and all the fluff!!
mikea hiooi
mikea hiooi Il y a 5 jours
It’s normal when the upper lip looks like that plus it’s still EARLY! The hell lol. Good for you for addressing it and making a appointment at a different place for a better experie
Thrif-Tea Annie
Thrif-Tea Annie Il y a 6 jours
He was just sucking his bottom lip in they do that, I'm surprised the tech didn't say that.
Sarah Lee
Sarah Lee Il y a 6 jours
So with this pandemic and all how do you and Steven feel about Immunization shots? Do you guys plan on giving the baby ?
mikea hiooi
mikea hiooi Il y a 5 jours
TO BE‼️💙CONGRATULATIONS‼️💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
thenamesjkay Il y a 6 jours
Ew I don’t like the ultrasound tech ladies comments.... I totally felt your vibe! And when the doctor came saying your baby’s lip is completely normal, I literally spit out my food. She was so much better than that other lady!
Krystel Markanson
Krystel Markanson Il y a 6 jours
Your mom is so adorable .... I’ll take her home now ... thank you so much 💕 congratulations on your sweet baby 🎉🎉🎉
Brianna Agosto
Brianna Agosto Il y a 6 jours
Lisa Also
Lisa Also Il y a 6 jours
Desi demanding to be sucked up to 24/7.
Lisa Also
Lisa Also Il y a 6 jours
2:31 ..."would have BOUGHTEN"??? If only that were a word! It's --- would have bought.
Lusine Naljayan
Lusine Naljayan Il y a 6 jours
Ahhhh so so sweet you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️🌸 I cant wait already 😌😉
bilishu aliss
bilishu aliss Il y a 6 jours
It’s normal when the upper lip looks like that plus it’s still EARLY! The hell lol. Good for you for addressing it and making a appointment at a different place for a better experie
just melissa
just melissa Il y a 6 jours
Also, Oregon Desi is a total mood. Girl you are so gorgeous!
just melissa
just melissa Il y a 6 jours
Wow, that Ultrasound tech was very inappropriate. She even said “shit” in front of you..I am in the medical field and it’s just so inappropriate. Your baby is so beautiful I cannot believe she said that. Ps: Nice zucchini, damn!!
bilishu aliss
bilishu aliss Il y a 6 jours
Your mom her voice is so soothing ☺️ congrats Desi & Steven.... Your little family is so loved and cared for best of wishes
Christin Loya
Christin Loya Il y a 7 jours
I think all anatomy appointments are that was. Mine was faster then yours and it was like click click click okay your done! It was definitely not as sentimental as they make it seem. Try not to take what nurses say to the heart I don’t think she meant it in a negative way at all
Sabria Jones
Sabria Jones Il y a 7 jours
Love this !! When you do the nursery tour you should do it in all Spanish ☺️ Love seeing your all practice. Can’t wait for episode 9
A NJ Il y a 7 jours
There was no need for the nurse to make those comments about an unborn baby’s lip lmao that was so so strange ....
Christiana Tsateri
Christiana Tsateri Il y a 7 jours
Aww so happy for you guys!!!! I have been watching your series and made me cry so many times, as me and my husband can’t have kids even with the ivf. I know there are women like me out there, so I am just sending love to these ladies! You are a perfect couple! Sending love to your family ! ❤️
Celina Gonzalez
Celina Gonzalez Il y a 7 jours
Im not trying to sound mean what I said but I don’t think she meant to say anything bad about your baby. Also, I know you expect to have excitement and loving from the doctor and nurses but that’s how it is sometimes . You’re lucky some talk tl you about their concerns or feel your Joy. Personally , This is my first tol and I don’t get half of that kind visits like you do . So enjoy your baby visits. Even if it’s not what you expected
Ashley Rushing
Ashley Rushing Il y a 7 jours
I don’t think the lady was being offensive. I’m 37 weeks pregnant and my baby has been difficult in all of my ultrasounds. They let you know the baby is in a bad position so you don’t get scared when they look concerned. She was just doing her job.
Meredith MOHLER
Meredith MOHLER Il y a 7 jours
Icanhavethemall Il y a 7 jours
your mom saying congratulations to me too haha a queen
abbsnn cose
abbsnn cose Il y a 7 jours
Ma’am his upper lip is perfect just like the rest of him! 💁🏻‍♀️
Kim T
Kim T Il y a 7 jours
Watched the whole series in one night.. currently 4am.. and it was beautiful❤😇
Heaven Victoria
Heaven Victoria Il y a 7 jours
AW don't be upset about her saying about the tucked lower lip, me and my family all have the same thing and we call it our little bird beaks and we all love it! it's unique and super cute!!! I'm so excited for baby perkins
Alma Alv
Alma Alv Il y a 7 jours
I’m only growing your child 😂 so me!
Sabrina Yee
Sabrina Yee Il y a 7 jours
I know you said you’re not buying much more newborn sizes, but for real you have to look up the brand LouLou&Company they have night gowns that make night time changes a breeze and literally is the SOFTEST material!!!!! I highly highly recommend them!!!
kat mu
kat mu Il y a 7 jours
I think calling the sonographer out in their vid was a bit much, but i get why they were so upset. The way the sonographer first described the baby as having a very tucked in bottom lip almost comes across as an insult. I think I wouldve gotten a little defensive too. And we have to remember this is Desi and Steven's first child that they have been waiting years to have so everything will be magnified for them. Maybe they shouldve just given the girl a break and not included their reaction in the video.
krissel daniel
krissel daniel Il y a 8 jours
I absolutely loveee this series. As a person who struggles with infertility herself it's so nice to see someone be so open about it ❤
ericadennett30 Il y a 8 jours
Your mom her voice is so soothing ☺️ congrats Desi & Steven.... Your little family is so loved and cared for best of wishes
Michelle Il y a 8 jours
Yesssss! Boy is cigar and girl is candy
Bobbie Richardson
Bobbie Richardson Il y a 8 jours
Idk why I try and do my makeup while I watch these 😅😭🥰
Chelsey Rose Denny
Chelsey Rose Denny Il y a 8 jours
I don’t think the technician meant anything with the lip comment. If anything a camera in the appointment should have been seen as privileged. I could not take any pics during any of mine🤷🏽‍♀️. Also the second doctor came in and reassured you that everything was good and that your baby was healthy.
Ap Jhuty
Ap Jhuty Il y a 8 jours
He's a big boy 💙 much love
Jenna Frazier
Jenna Frazier Il y a 8 jours
The lip thing wasn’t meant to be negative. Babies suck in their bottom lips all the time. The ultrasound tech didn’t need to say that meant one of you have that, because that’s not what that means. Yes, usually when the babies do that, it means they have puffier lips, which is a good thing. Also, ultrasound techs at the doctors offices are not usually very personable or make the visit special. You have to pay for that experience. I’ve been pregnant five times (have 3 boys) & never had an amazing ultrasound at my OBGYN’s office. Always had to schedule & pay for something personable & special. Which is unfortunate, because all techs (insurance covered or paid for privately) should make it great, because it is a miracle.
Kristen Perez
Kristen Perez Il y a 8 jours
The way Steven looks at you and is so in love and excited brings me to tears 😭
aola wili
aola wili Il y a 8 jours
“The baby will hear and listen to what you say”...... Desi: “No get outta here you stink” 😂😂 love it!
Dominique Cortes
Dominique Cortes Il y a 8 jours
I got pajamas with buttons with my first as a newborn and giiiiirl I hated them during middle of the night changes and feedings. I abandoned ship and stopped buying them 😂 Also, my experience with my sonographer with my second child wasn’t pleasant either. They can definitely change your mood. Babies are born with an overbite so they can latch easier with breastfeeding. I don’t think the comment was necessary.
Sarah Collier
Sarah Collier Il y a 8 jours
That lady was the worst. I wanted to jump in and tell her to stop talking, and switch the mood!!!! So glad you’re going to a better place 💖
aola wili
aola wili Il y a 8 jours
Steven is such a kind and sweet soul. You guys are going to be great parents. This series brings me so much joy. Desi you’re glowing 😭❤️
Angelica Campos
Angelica Campos Il y a 8 jours
Honestly Desi, you sounded entitled as hell. Now is NOT the time to be requesting fanfare and appointments just because you didn’t get your ego fluffed. The lady was not even mean. Unprofessional yes, but not mean spirited. Get off your high horse and get your priorities straight please. Everyone can tell hormones and fame are getting to your head and you’re starting to come across like an entitled pregzilla.
Khadija Begum
Khadija Begum Il y a 9 jours
Who cant wait for desi's baby mama dance
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