Kalvin Garrah is far WORSE than you thought

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Trigger Warning:
This video contains discussions around transphobia, ableism, fatphobia and mental health.
Fun fact: making this video destroyed my sanity.
I have made time stamps because this video is very long. If you're only wanting watch some of I would encourage you all to watch Lars and Noah's stories because I really want people to be aware of how serious Kalvin's actions are - I think it's very important their stories are out there.
Anyway hope you're all doing well! Feel free to subscribe :)
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PayPal: copshatemoe@gmail.com
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Links I mentioned in the video (cool trans people to support):
Brennen Beckwith: frvid.com/video/vid%C3%A9o-bnpp0-OzA50.html
Ashton Daniel: frvid.com/video/vid%C3%A9o-tipS2yTVYHc.html
Adrian the Alien: frvid.com/video/vid%C3%A9o-MFnnFl6r6AA.html
Gender Desecration: frvid.com/video/vid%C3%A9o-rskxlwoE7mU.html
Elliott James: frvid.com/u-ElliottJames
Korviday: frvid.com/video/vid%C3%A9o-TouvZelR-lM.html
The Article I mentioned:
atranslog.medium.com/truscum-volume-ii-a-deeper-look-at-kalvin-garrah-5138b04e42ec
Time Stamps
(If you're going only wanting watch some of this video, I would encourage you to watch Lars and Noah's stories)
Chapters:
0:00 Intro
1:20 The Beginning
3:51 Kalvin‘s content changes
5:48 Brennen Beckwith
11:31 "Being trans is a mental illness"
14:06 Ashton Daniel
19:45 Kalvin's channel is deleted
22:18 The Tr*nny voice"
26:24 Lars's Story
33:14 Blaire White
34:55 Supporting a TERF
38:18 Noah's Story
45:34 Korviday
46:57 Cavetown "beef"
50:38 Kalvin's decline
54:25 Arielle Scarcella
55:45 Riley Grace Roshong
59:02 "Breaking my silence"
1:00:56 Neo Pronouns
1:03:31 The End

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CopsHateMoe Il y a mois

I forgot to put this at the start of the video so I’ll pin it in the comments. Trigger Warning: This video contains discussions around transphobia, ableism, suicide, fatphobia and mental health. All links are in the description, feel free to subscribe if you want to support me :))

CopsHateMoe Il y a 6 jours

@Arlo Menchaca I wish someone would have cared about your feelings because maybe then you wouldn't have turned out to be such an arsehole.

Arlo Menchaca Il y a 6 jours

Your generation needs to learn that nobody is here to coddle you. Nobody cares about trigger warnings Everyone is allowed to express their opinions how they want. If you don’t like it, move on. It’s that simple. Liberals are starting to become perfectionists and it’s why I can no longer call myself that. So embarrassing

Cassandra Suzanne Il y a 15 jours

@CopsHateMoe I was living off ad revenue in the internet on the late 90s, when I was your age, so I do get it. But too many ads can be counterproductive, because it discourages people from watching more videos and then hopefully subscribing. The other concern of course is demonetization, which FRvid seems to have very little reservation about. You discuss sensitive topics and more and more videos are getting demonetized for increasingly stupid reasons, so relying on those ad breaks is scary and unreliable for creators. I know it's not easy but I hope you are able to land sponsorships. (I also get how that's more difficult for some than others; my website was controversial and it presents a whole other challenge when trying to find compatible advertisers.) I know you didn't ask for a lecture, I just think you have quality content here and this is the kind of thing I support on FRvid. It's unfair that people who use this platform to make the world better have a FAR more difficult time building a large audience than people who abuse the privilege (won't bother to name names, you know.) Hey, maybe you can make a second channel with completely awful DIY/life hacks and put tons of ads on those!! You literally don't even have to think, just grab a hot glue gun and start sticking things to other things. You'll have 10 million subs in a week.

CopsHateMoe Il y a 15 jours

@Cassandra Suzanne I need money to survive lmao.... I’ve literally been couch surfing for the past month.

Cassandra Suzanne Il y a 15 jours

I need a trigger warning for 11 ad breaks. Jesus.

Jake Lankford Il y a 5 heures

Coming back to ask a genuine question I've had in the back of my head for awhile now: When did transmedicalism fully take off in the trans community, who can the ideology be traced back to, and just how did such a harmful ideology ever become so popular?

Emilia Il y a 8 heures

ik this is a super important vid but wow ur attractive

J A C K Il y a 14 heures

I was young and confused, so I watched Kalvin. It took years for me to admit that I was trans. His views made me feel that since I still enjoyed things like dolls and the color pink, I was just imagining things.

Bizarre Mind Il y a jour

Can we make fun of "Kelvin" for being trans the same way he bullies actual trans people or whould that be transphobic?

Anthony Kerr Il y a jour

How do you do those exercises?

Roxanne Labrosse Il y a jour

Kalvin is so irrelevant that I learn about him, cuz of the backlash 🤣😅 THE PROOF THAT ANY PRESS ISN'T GOOD PRESS!! I just know him as a spawn of hell

Vivian Ray Il y a jour

The "fake" disabilities thing really hits me because I relate. While I am not trans, I am a disabled person who both walks and uses a wheelchair. I am constantly afraid that people will think I am faking because I only use my wheelchair when outside because I can't walk long distances with out being in extreme pain or literally being unable to walk anymore. It's infuriating and upsetting that someone else has to go through a great fear of mine. Also those phych ward people are assholes, like seriously what did they ever do to you for you to be so nasty. People suck sometimes

cups Il y a 2 jours

Ngl, back then I thought all he spoke of was actually right. I was like " makes sense-- they're Trans themselves. " But then obviously I grew up and taught myself the truth. Looking back it really makes me uncomfortable.

caroline baxendale Il y a 2 jours

I just wanna say you're so freaking attractive and have the most perfect accent everrrrrr 👌♥️

Mia S. K. Il y a 2 jours

Wow, what’s the difference between gay people and trans people? REALLY?

sabia Il y a 2 jours

hes such a hypocrite.. nobody is really trans.

Haze D Il y a 2 jours

Lars has EDS if I'm reading correctly. I also have EDS and have been through a similar thing. People constantly telling me I'm faking my illness and shit. Its so harmful and just shows how uneducated Kalvin is. I am in a wheelchair sometimes and other times I'm taking my dogs on hikes or working a job. It's so ignorant and honestly gives me 2012 Tumblr vibes.

The Depressed Blacksmith Il y a 2 jours

Grow up and stop acting like your any better, I know toddlers who have more common sense than you. 😒

Rainy Il y a 2 jours

Oh my god I never knew the impact this had on people. I never supported Kalvin but I never, ever knew how bad it got. I sincerely hope everyone who was affected by him is doing at least a little better today. I wish I could give them hugs and love and support I'm genuinely so, so sorry for all of the victims mentioned in this video, and even the ones that weren't mentioned.

ricky tiki tavi Il y a 2 jours

If Calvin tries to kill himself, or even gets depressed, I'm holding you responsible.

Bailey Il y a 3 jours

off topic but the way you talk not just like your voice but the times that you pause and ur sentence structuring is so calming

vegetable soup for the teenage soul Il y a 3 jours

Also he’s a psychopath. PERIOD

vegetable soup for the teenage soul Il y a 3 jours

Kalvin should get his ass sued

Rock0h Il y a 3 jours

can't believe I used to be a fan of him. It was only recently that I discovered how much I hate him lol

DeebeeDoobee Il y a 3 jours

A really thorough and well-thought-out exploration of Kalvin's actions, thank you for all the time and energy you put into this video. x

Millicent Duke Il y a 3 jours

I’m really sad that kids exploring the world, being silly, spontaneous, and lighthearted, gets called “cringe”. Shaming people for taking harmless chances that make them look a little bit goofy is something we could do without.

No Name Il y a 3 jours

He's friends with Blair witch soooooooooo

RUTH GELLIS Il y a 3 jours

fjndndnfb blair witch

Chiara Il y a 4 jours

NOT A PERSON WITH A GUNDHAM PFP BEING TRANSFOBIC!!!!

Lindsay Howard Il y a 4 jours

i also think that its very important that the people he went after were feminine presenting... while i think you were right in him attacking these individuals because of his own insecurities and want of cis validation, but also it seems deeply rooted in misogyny. to my knowledge, he didn't attack any amab or masc presenting individuals. great video- very well done. can't imagine how hard it was to look through all of these things

Holy Boi Amethin Il y a 4 jours

“Actually I choose to dress like this cause it’s TIGHT AS FUCK” wish I had that confidence man

cho Il y a 2 jours

Confidence is key! Also, question, is your pfp your WoW character?

bun e Il y a 4 jours

this is such an amazing and comprehensive video, i have to sub and watch all ur stuff.

YeetyMcNeety Il y a 4 jours

the fact that he traumatized brennan makes my blood boil. because of his rheoric, people still come for me with his mentality. i get called a "trender" because i identify with gender identities wildly outside of the gender binary. i identify with these genders and use neo/xenopronouns because im autistic. being autistic causes me to have a complex relationship with gender. i dont feel human, i dont think im human (thats also a religious thing) and my gender reflects my identity as a being in some way. kalvins rhetoric is so ableist and it hurts so much. UPDATE: im watching further and my blood is boiling, my heart goes out to lars and all his victims. YES, YOU CAN IDENTIFY AS AUTIGENDER BECAUSE AUTISM IMPACTS GENDER

BippityBoppityBoo Il y a 4 jours

I found him through Storm Ryan. I have to ask, does Storm Ryan have anything to do with the drama, because I don't hate him, and I'm really hoping he didn't have anything to do with this?! I had always found Kalvin kinda rude on Storm Ryan's channel and thankfully never actually watched any of Kalvin's videos....this is such a freaking mess.

Bug Il y a 4 jours

i used to watch him not that long ago and I watched him for like a few years. During that time I had a lot of internalized homophobia and transphobia. I was so obsessed with hating enbys and anyone who was different than Kalvin and Blaire. after some time I realized I was definitely a lesbian. But I was so sure I was cis. this is when I was going through a lot mentally (still doesn't excuse my actions) I agreed with everything Kalvin and Blaire said. after I started medication and going to therapy I was able to start a new life, and I slowly realized I'm non-binary myself. I was diagnosed as neurodivergent and it explained a lot. I've now realized how I experience gender is slightly abnormal and i used to hate myself SO MUCH that i hated anything like how i actually was. Now I'm en enby lesbian and i use they/them and many neopronouns. And I now disagree with EVERYTHING I used to believe.I've finally come to accept myself and those around me after so many years. Im now so much happier :) (Im sorry if this is hard to read I'm not good at typing long things )

Tyghe Deerfield Il y a 4 jours

The ableism and the degree that so many buy into is is heartbreaking. Most disabled people have days where we're able to do more than others. We might be able to fix the roof or do our grocery shipping one day, but barely able to shower or do the dishes the next. Hell, I can dance for hours some days but may have a couple of weeks where I can't stand without a cane. And that's not even accounting for my less visible mental disabilities. And people will see me on a highly functional day and then call my inability to keep up with housework laziness.

Kate O'Riordan Il y a 4 jours

You know when you watch someone’s video and you just get this overwhelming feeling of “I want to be your friend!!!” yeah that feeling is strong for me with this one. (Towards you not Kalvin, of course) You are SO COOL

Hayden Poncetta Il y a 4 jours

damn if he saw me on the street since i'm a emotional mess i would probably cry and run away btw im a trans kid

Salazar Il y a 5 jours

I just wanna say that I appreciate you for taking the time to construct this video.

gray Il y a 5 jours

I remember thinking he was a really good source for trans content when I was in middle school, I watched a lot of his content when I was about 13. Now I'm openly non-binary and trying so hard to present differently for my own comfort and I realize how dangerous his ideals were that I found myself spewing to my cis friends. I hope I can continue to undo the damage I've done by reiterating his content to others.

Just Me Il y a 5 jours

As a straight cis female I’ve always supported the lgbtq+ community and tried to be educated when it comes to this and because I wanted to learn more watched his videos for a long time and because he is a trans man I took everything he said as facts about trans people. People like this could really misinform other people and influence people the wrong way :/

St. Beatles Il y a 5 jours

I barely knew anything about this dude before this video and he’s disgusting

Walking the Tightrope Il y a 5 jours

Bruh, I used to watch him thinking he was a good representation of the Trans community but after a while he just got worse and worse and i just stopped agreeing with him. He really is a bully and I can't believe it's taken me this long to see it

Hania Snæ Il y a 5 jours

Kalvin's immaturity was so showing in the way he dealt with Cavetown's hatred of him. Like, Kalvin, Cavetown didn't owe you shit. It doesn't matter if you promoted his work in the past, if you supported him, he's still in his right to have an opinion about you and your shitty beliefs. Kalvin really needs to grow up, jesus christ.

TrueHoomanHere Il y a 5 jours

One thing that definitely hurt me the most from him as when he said that genderfluids on't make sense. I'm genderfluid and being told how I feel on the inside doesn't make any sense just because you never went through it f-cking hurts. (I think he said the same about non-binary people but I'm not sure) Sorry for existing Kalvin!

Lizz Soileau Il y a 5 jours

Lmfaooo Moe really pulled out the contacts for this video

Mytru Mara Il y a 5 jours

I'll finish the video later because this is actually pretty interesting but I need to go to bed. I'll leave this on saying it's uncanny how much you look like Todd Howard.

daikoncrossing Il y a 6 jours

that’s why i felt off watching his “trans people can’t be feminine video.” i thought that i was being a transtrender, but some of my friends proved that wrong. i was asking myself if i could still dress in a more feminine way and like feminine things. kalvin said, “yes you can, BUT if you fully look like a woman you’re NOT trans, and if you don’t have dysphoria you’re NOT trans. i believed in what he said and cut my hair short because of it. i’m proud of my short hair, but i still looked very feminine and got scared if i was still being a transtrender. im still a minor who can’t afford things like binders, and i’m still in the closet, it made me feel like that i was forcing myself as trans because i didn’t met up his standards. i was incredibly stupid. my friends helped me realized that everyone’s journey are different; that everyone can express themselves freely. there are no expectations and standards that you have to meet to be a trans male (or trans female.)

Emma C Il y a 6 jours

“Ignorance breeds fear, fear breeds hate, and hatred breeds destruction.” -Daryl Davis

wonsikbrah Il y a 6 jours

I remember watching his videos two years ago and thinking "this person should not have a FRvid platform, he's extremely toxic." I'm glad people are finally speaking more on this.

Dionysus Il y a 6 jours

i remember having a blaire white video in my recommended and i didn’t know who she was so i clicked and i got like halfway through the video before i clicked out. it was a weird vibe i got and i could immediately tell she was like kalvin, never watched her again

Snake Bear Il y a 6 jours

I'm glad I found your content. You seem very cool.

enini Il y a 6 jours

The way this is set up I feel like I’m watching a Kalvin Garrah Documentary

Maya Mourani Il y a 6 jours

damn. thank you for posting this. i honestly always had this off feeling about him when i watched him years ago, but i didn’t realize all this was happening. this vid honestly helped a lil bit w my own problems that kalvin has made me believe. also your voice made this 1 hour long video easier to watch, despite how terrible he is.

prince Il y a 6 jours

unrelated but your voice is very pleasant

Prickly_Cactus Il y a 7 jours

I'm glad that the first trans FRvidr I found was Jammiedodger, one of the most wholesome, intelligent, respectfully and educated guy out there. He taught me a lot and helped me discovered who I was. This is the 1st video I have seen of yours, and I plan to watch more today.

cya Il y a 7 jours

on his neopronouns video, i commented about how i use frog pronouns even before watching it because i can't stand him. turns out he actually did diss frog pronouns in that video, so that was a wild ride. i do remember at one point i met a bunch of people who were just hanging out in the comments, and we decided to have a sleepover. lucky me, i had bought two monster energys earlier so i was prepared. it was honestly super wholesome, we decided to move to another video so it was easier to talk, and i met someone who i really liked!! i haven't talked to them in ages now, i should probably dm them again. there really isn't much i can say here, but i thought it would be a nice story to share after all his hateful words.

[a failure and a disgrace to humanity] Il y a 7 jours

i remember watching him as a kid. it was so weird. i was very intrested as a (now trans identifying person). but it was kinda weird and uncomfortable. probably because hes so transphobic.

Eleanor Mc Il y a 7 jours

Iv never see your videos before but safe to say I'm hooked. You my friend are a cool guy 😎🤙

nikola Il y a 7 jours

If you're reading the comments, Kalvin: I agree with Moe, *wholeheartedly*. Please see a therapist or learn meditation or both. Anytime someone says or thinks "EW! It's ____ , they're disgusting and less than me. I'm a better person that deserves to be treated with dignity, they do NOT deserve the same privileges that I have" that's fas*ism. pls stop identifying with na*i ideology, you're harming children's minds and ruining lives, clearly. social justice (people dying and fighting for rights) is the reason you're able to transition at all. pls watch all of PhilosophyTube's and Samantha Lux's videos on TERFs and other political stuffs and have some self-reflection? the mainstream loves canceling but I feel like intersectional feminists would agree character growth is always welcome, inevitable, and a must, if real change were to happen.

amarielli Il y a 8 jours

i remember i started following you on instagram for your art yeaaars ago - really cool seeing you pop up in my recommended! this topic really hits home for me because i used to watch some of his videos when i was younger, and its crazy to see how blind i was to how toxic they are. his rhetoric can definitely affect kids, very dangerous. great video!

Macaroni and Cliches Il y a 8 jours

It really sucks that the first person to get people on their side about kalvin is someone who ALSO gets kicks from sexually harassing people Oh wow Kalvin had the same response to Cavetown that James O'Keefe had to the one reporter who supposedly "inspired" him

Macaroni and Cliches Il y a 8 jours

Why does Kalvin make fun of trans people's voices pretty much the exact same way as Lily, but with a slur slapped on WHt the FUCK HEY NO that is EXACTLY why psych wards here don't allow phones with internet! Why would they be letting that happen???

Martín Zícari Il y a 8 jours

legal action against this bully

Carrie Smith Il y a 8 jours

Your hair towards the end of the video looked really good.

Beth B Il y a 8 jours

2:49 what cringe? That's so wholesome and heartwarming

Ivory Il y a 8 jours

Kalvin is an oppressor, he is incredibly fatphobic, ableist and also transphobic. Yes he is trans but his actions towards his own community (which includes nb people and is more than just what he views as trans) was HORRIBLY damaging and did so much hurt to us. I firmly believe how he treats folks have gotten people killed or hurt and I fully separate him from our spaces. He is no longer welcome in our spaces if all he is going to do is cause harm. My opinion on him will change if he changes and grows himself, and if he goes to repair the damage he's done.

neala xR Il y a 8 jours

As a cis female I wanted to educate myself on transgender people and issues so I watched him and I was surprised by his views but I didn't doubt him because he was trans after all. Rn I dont really care about your identity as long as you're a respectfull individual. I still feel it is in my place to apologize if I ever had spread transphobia by quoting him... I see now how that is damaging... I've been educated 🤓

angel v Il y a 8 jours

i am so glad i got out of the mindset that being influenced by kalvin garrah gave me when i was a younger teen bc that mindset made me go back into the closet just because i liked feminine things (skirts, dresses, makeup, etc. ) and felt like i wasn't trans because i wasn't suffering 24/7

GenezA Il y a 8 jours

It's wild - cus when I was younger I used to buy into this right wing transphobic bullshit, and I don't really know why. Maybe it was some type of internalized phobia, but looking back on it - it's all so fucking stupid. Cus who the *fuck* am I to police someone on how they *exist*?

I_d_k This is a username Il y a 9 jours

i have been trying to find a detailed video about him and this really helped me fully understand the "timeline" so thank you Moe!!!

Isabel Walker Il y a 9 jours

im honestly so ashamed of myself for the fact i used to watch and HEAVILY support kalvin to the point i bought his merch

JustVibing Il y a 9 jours

You look like you give amAZING hugs. I said what I said

CopsHateMoe Il y a 9 jours

ngl i do give pretty great hugs :)

Sunny Vawego Il y a 9 jours

Wean I was younger I internalize my own trans phobia and was a fan of kalven and I took me a long time to get out of that and except that he was wrong and except my self as non-binary. I had no idea how bad kalven was this bad

Kodi Il y a 9 jours

As a trans man, I honestly never want to say the t slur, ever, even though I know that I could. It just makes me so unconfortable, knowing the power in the word, and I often worry that if I say it around cisgender people, it will make them think that they can say it. I'm also bisexual, but I won't say the f slur either, for the same reason that heteros around me might think it's appropriate for them to say it.

Shannon Freggie Il y a 9 jours

Hi saw this video just subscribed ❤️

Maryland Munrogue Il y a 9 jours

he's only 20, that figures ..not saying every 20 yr old is immature but he offends a lot of us especially non binary identities ; honestly should be reported for discrimination

Head Smooty Il y a 9 jours

Aww, another FRvid channel discussing transphobia and fatphobia and all the little made up phobias by the left to make people who don't agree with their lifestyle look like bigots and racists. How original.

Head Smooty Il y a 8 jours

@lia one of the biggest problems with trans and gay movements that most people have a problem with and why they're starting to resent them is because they're are trying to force it upon people. They're using politics, laws, and social media to force you to accept their lifestyle. When you force people to do things they don't want to they tend to resent you. Most people just don't care and them not caring is bigotry in your mind. Of course there are definitely hate filled people and I would never condone acting out in violence towards someone who is gay or transgender or fat. But stop calling people bigots and phobes of some sort because you don't see eye to eye.

Head Smooty Il y a 8 jours

@lia yes, they are bullshit terms in which everyone is lumped into if they don't agree with your opinions and lifestyle. Sure, a person who blatantly slams and physically harms or vocally expresses their hatred towards these groups is a bigot. But the problem with your movement and people like you is that if a person just isn't interested in your cause or simply doesn't agree with your opinions you then label them a bigot and then assign them a phobia of your choice. The fact that you don't see anything wrong with the is disturbing. The average person when confronted with a person who doesn't like them or their lifestyle usually just goes on with life and ignores that person, but you and people in your circle have created a way of dealing with everyone who you don't like by just lumping everyone in the same category because they don't agree with you. You point fingers in anger and lash out. People are allowed to like or dislike whatever they want. Nobody has to like your lifestyle and ideas and that certainly doesn't make everyone a bigot or a homophobe. It's gotten so ridiculous that a article came out by a transgender person saying that if you won't date a transgender person then you're transphobic. I mean does that make sense to you? So because I like women and prefer not to date transgenders because I'm just not attracted to them that in turn makes me a transphobic bigot? That's okay in your eyes?

lia Il y a 8 jours

@Head Smooty the “who don’t agree with their “lifestyles” might’ve been it. all you said was that the channel was unoriginal, which is why you said transphobia and “all other phobias” are made up. i’m emotional how?

Head Smooty Il y a 8 jours

@lia where did you get that I believe that those groups don't deserve rights? All I said was the channel was unoriginal. You're just assuming I don't believe in rights for everyone. I just commented on the unoriginal beaten like a dead horse content. You're very emotional right now. Not everyone lives in the same fantasy world as you do.

lia Il y a 8 jours

@Head Smooty the opinion that those who aren’t cis, straight and white should have human rights? yes, if you disagree with those opinions then you are, by definition, a bigot

Clarissa Navarro Il y a 9 jours

You are too nice.

emchan Il y a 10 jours

moe i love u

Mystic BK Il y a 10 jours

LMAO 💀💀

Anneliese Harvey Il y a 10 jours

On the topic of Arielle Scarcella, she was damaging in a different way for me. When I was about 16 I was thinking that I like both men and women. I went looking for answers/support from FRvid ofc. Her and others videos about bisexuals and lesbians calling them cheaters, really straight, gross, and they would NEVER date a bi person really made me feel awful and made me think I wasn’t even accepted by the community who’s name I share a letter with (LGBTQ). I hate that they were all so toxic and disregarded other experiences when they knew their influence and responsibility. Did this happen to anyone else?? It took me years to really accept myself and speak about it bc of this

Meghan Bee Il y a 10 jours

he’s the male Blaire White.

Theo M Il y a 10 jours

I found his content at the beginning of my transition, I was 11. as I grew I realized that everything he was saying was wrong and I'm extremely glad I finally realized. when I was subscribed to him I was so angry and insecure but as soon as I stopped sh¡t got better. legit, it's non of my business what other people do and identify as, it's their life, not mine.

Ollie D. Il y a 10 jours

I really cannot understand why Kalvin Garrah and Blaire White are still on FRvid. Their whole thing is punching down for brownie points with cis people and bullying people.

hayden wiley Il y a 10 jours

this is a such a well done call out. i used to like him but was always very weary about what he was doing and how much he impacted people in such a disgusting way. this video taught me a lot, thank you for this , people like him do not deserve a platform , especially someone who claims to “educate” people on the community but in reality they are just deflecting on everyone else.

Jamie Hates You Il y a 10 jours

Just wanna know, are you still doing a part 2 ?

CopsHateMoe Il y a 10 jours

yes!

Bea m8 Il y a 10 jours

Bruh. You have absolutely mesmerising eyes

Crystopher C. Il y a 10 jours

Im trans (ftm) ive been out for 3 years, im 17. used to look up to Kalvin for a really long time and it ended up harming who i was as a person and i realized i was making people i cared about and other trans people feel gross about themselves by spreading his misinformation as a reason to validate myself and then put down other trans people. learning more about the people around me and leaving kalvin behind helped me understand every trans person experiences being trans in a different way and thats perfectly fine and theres no reason to tell people whether they are trans or not thats for them to figure out not for people like Kalvin to dictate. Even though i never affected anyone here directly id still like to apologize for blindly believing someone and hurting others for it.

Rock Il y a 10 jours

Lars is someone i can really relate to. i have undiagnosed hEDS and professionally diagnosed autism. im a agender/non-binary person. (it/bug/they) i used to watch Kalvins videos. i used to believe what he was saying. since i didnt kniw you could be more than a man or woman, i identified as a trans man. i used to use he/him pronouns. because thats what i was told by him. that unless i was his version of trans, i was a trender. and i didnt want to be a trender. i didnt want him to make a video about me. he was so damaging. if it werent for him i would have known i was non-binary a long time ago.

Muesung Pluto Il y a 10 jours

I remember his "you need dysphoria to be trans" video, I was at the start of my gender realisation and let me tell you that fucked me Up bc I have more social dysphoria, less body dysphoria. Like dear god, I'm glad I'm getting more opinions pushing away the idea that I have to despise my body to be trans. It helps, several years down the line

Kayden Marlow Il y a 10 jours

I'm so upset that I was stupid enough to spend my money on his Patreon. Theres nothing on there anyway that I haven't seen on his FRvid. What a waste of 30 bucks over time.

ella grant Il y a 10 jours

kalvin is a part of the alt right pipeline btw and its really important to talk about this

AA BB Il y a 10 jours

I love cops, but I want you to know, that when I had a breast reduction at 17, it was one of the greatest things ever! It felt quite comfortable, after surgery, and my scars mostly faded after 6-8 Months. I lost all sense of sensation in my ' sensitive areas ' and underneath, though. It is so liberating and freeing, you will feel like a face, instead of face and breasts. That was my experience. I had my surgery in Adelaide-Aus. It was life-changing for the best

AA BB Il y a 10 jours

How can you be transgender, and non-binary? Just wondering, am continuing to watch, you're gorgeous!

AA BB Il y a 2 jours

Is that what non-binary is?

YamaChampion Il y a 8 jours

Cis and Trans come from Latin. Cis means, "this side of," and Trans means "the other side of." If that "other side" happens to be nonbinary, you can be trans and nonbinary! Some nonbinary people do not like calling themselves trans. I am agender and I have not decided if I want to call myself trans or not. It's different for everybody.

Baguette Gott Il y a 10 jours

The word "transgender" just means you identify with a different gender than the one you were assigned at birth. Since Moe wasn't assigned non-binary, but they do identify as non-binary now, they fall under the umbrella of "transgender".

Jorji Il y a 10 jours

this honestly breaks my heart I'm so sorry to every person he has made feel a certain way :(

Th3 Gh02t Il y a 11 jours

I’m so embarrassed that I used to follow him... I used to watch him when I was a bit younger, but very clearly remember feeling invalid for my dysphoria because of him, and feeling anxious about coming out, because I didn’t want to be called a “Trender”. After a while, it got to the point I stopped watching him because I began realizing how toxic he really was. So glad I did. Yikes...

bumble bee Il y a 11 jours

"speaking up over trans mascs"??? sounds so sexiest bro so like the opinions of trans fem people doesn't matter is that what hes saying? Didn't he also say something to some girl about sticking to makeup?

Eyemèr Talks Il y a 11 jours

thank you for this video !!

Treegona Il y a 11 jours

Calvin, actual chipmunk, garrah, really said: "gender identity and gender presentation have no correlation" (28.51, middle message).

Hannah Mullen Il y a 11 jours

I used to watch Kalvin at the peak of his channel because I did agree with some of his points about transmedicalism and other things, but I stopped watching because I realized that just because you disagree with how someone presents doesn't mean you should bully them (i never did this, but it got to the point that I realized that that was what he was doing). I didn't know much of this stuff was going on that you mentioned, and if I did I would have stopped watching him a lot sooner. I was young and naive at the time. I think that his rhetoric is definitely dangerous to those who do not know much about transgender people/the LGBT community like I did. Thank you for making this video to highlight some of the scummy things I didn't realize were happening back then and I hope anyone effected by Kalvin is doing better now.

Ida Edberg Il y a 11 jours

Awesome video, i watched a few of Kalvs videos but he made me feel shittier and less educated than when i came so i unsubscribed immideatly... Its just so sad cuz he must have SO much internalized transphobia and other issues, and really hate himself pouring all of that hatred out there in The ether ): also so sad that his content affects so many trans People negatively hopefully he can become a better and compasionate person at some point /:

Tobyn Ball Il y a 11 jours

I remember finding his videos as a stupid teenager, back before I had a change of heart after actually looking at transgender people's perspectives. And you know what, I still clicked off his videos because he was just to mean! I don't get how people could think he's in the right, even if they agree with a few of the he does, because he's just a bad guy.

Asu Carrots Il y a 11 jours

thank you for all the hard work you put into this video, the work you do for our community, and giving some of these people an opportunity to say their side of the story. you're a legend!